Polyvagal Theory, developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, describes a hierarchy of three nervous system states. Understanding which state you're in — and why — removes self-blame and points toward the right return pathway. Select the rung of the ladder that best describes your experience right now.
Ventral Vagal · Safe & Social
Connected, curious, grounded
PresentEye contact easyVoice melodicOpen to noveltyHeartrate calmDigestion working
Sympathetic · Mobilized / Fight-Flight
Activated, anxious, or angry
Heart racingShallow breathJaw tightRestlessIrritableScanning for threat
Dorsal Vagal · Immobilized / Freeze
Shut down, numb, or collapsed
Flat affectHeavy bodyDisconnectedHard to speakNo energyTime distortion